ACT LIKE A LADY BUT THINK LIKE A MAN

Hi Ladies & Gents,

I went to see “Act Like A Lady, Think like a Man” this weekend and when I left the theater, there were a lot of people saying things like, that joint was funny, Kevin Hart was hilarious or that movie was like that. However, my perspective on it was, the movie was good but I could have waited to see it on DVD.  Don’t get me wrong, Kevin Hart was funny and frankly, if it was not for his parts, the movie would have been dry. The movie did show the different facet of the way a man think  but are we suppose to lower our standard to adjust to the way they think to keep them?  I think it should be the other way around especially since we know how to love and nurture. It’s in our makeup.  Men need only to be themselves, stop allowing other men to dictate to them, how they should be or act in their relationship.  This would definitely avoid a lot of heartache and pain.  Will the real men please stand up! Women simply want to be loved & respected, Period.  The problem is, so many have been hurt that they now think they have to shield their heart, both men and women. Therefore, they play these mind games to try and get what they want plus keep the man/woman.

I have always said and sticking to it, that when a woman first enters a relationship, the guy has one hundred percent of her love & trust.  I’m not talking about a woman who is on her second or third man, I am saying her first. It is only when she gets hurt, whether physical or mental, that trust and love begin to falter then the mind games start.  If men can love us like they love themselves, as the bible says, they can feel confident that the woman they chose to be with, will love and honor them.  With that said, why in the world should we act like a lady and think like them.  Finally, I am glad that his movie made number one because we all know how difficult that is for an Afro-American man.  What’s your take on this?  I like to hear your thoughts. PEACE!